Thanks, FMV, but I don't know that it happened that way in my sitch. I had no idea my wife was in therapy, no idea when it started or ended, and no idea what the therapist said. Unfortunately, my wife IS a therapist and that may have played a part in my sitch, but she has long standing issues that I did not fully appreciate. I really feel badly for her now. I know that the reality is not matching the fantasy and for the first time last night she let on that she was hurting over this despite having always said that she was so sure about wanting out.
A great deal of damage has already been done to many people, including my children, our families, and friends, all of whom are in shock, no matter how this turns out, and I am afraid that she may end up being the most damaged of all.
