This is the 9th week for me with no/little communication from W. I recieved the email from her last week regarding her mail and that was unsolcited. And it appears that each time I go dark/semi dark that is when she communicates (twice so far).
I know I am emotionally tied-up in knots here and that is why I am seeking the advice from the vets here. It seems that totally letting go is the proper approach here. She detached (though not totally) and I MUST detach for my own health and well-being.
I see a lot of posters here who have let their emotions get the best of them and have deminished their progress in DBing. Maybe I am over analyzing my sitch, but what I am trying to do is take the temperature of my W (she seems to move a little when I let go and go dark) as well as see what works and what does not work with the other posters.
I am GAL because I realize that this is all that I have control over. Though if and when my W ever talks with me I have begun developing that communication strategy as well. I am trying to use the gift of time that my W gave me to the fulliset advantage.
TH what are your plans for R or do you feel that you are not at that point yet?
