Thank you. I read soleil post to Gyn and I came to the same conclusion. It may seem like an innocent gesture, but it send conflicting messages from me and tells her that I am still hovering around.
She truly has to feel that I am not there for her and that I have moved on. It will be difficult for me, but it is what must be done to successfully DB.
Well I'm glad I helped someone. Care to come read my thread and hit me with a 2x4! It's been a really bad day.
Smooches, Doodi
"I feel like Rocky in the fifteenth round, beaten beyond recognition, when I realize, the only person I've been fighting for is...myself."