This journey has been going on for one year. The answer is yes I do get angry but I exercise and try to put these things going on out of my mind. I have a support group like this forum which helps me to understand and cope. I have a network of friends and family that have heard me sound off. I generally can contain my anger and try to work through issues. There are times that I do explode but thats push to shove. My wife was the screamer and perhaps she thought I was passive. I do not believe 2 people can argue at the same time because the other person tunes out or only hears themselves and not you. My wife when angry would never let me finish a sentence without cutting me off.bobby O