WAW left on Independence Day and not communicating

[TimeHeals]

Yeah, it's confusing when you are where you are emotionally.

I don't have a time-line for your sit in front of me. I can tell you that me and my STBXW had NC for around 6 weeks before we spoke to one another.

And then things went from better to worse quickly.

Things seem nicer now. Who knows? The big difference in all of this, for me, is ME. I am fine. I can be divorced and single, I can date my STBXW, and no matter what happens, I'm going to be happy. To tell you the honest truth, if there is any hesitation on my part it is only in "taking things for granted". I can flirt, I can be happy alone, I can be happy with her if she is happy to be with me, and I have no idea whatsoever it is leading toward or even if it is leading toward anything. I am going with whatever is happening and seeing where it leads.