I read your comment to Gyn on letting go. This why I am anguishing over sending my W a simple b-day email. If I truly let her go and I told her that I did when I apologized to her last week, then I would not acknowledge her b-day...consistent with my words telling her that I was letting her go.
I know she is a WAW and she is detaching and running away from me as fast as she can, but I was always a dotting H and buying her nice b-day gifts. So in essence this would be a 180 for me because she would be expecting some form of acknowledgement from me, if I was still interested. She has to feel that I am really gone for her to stop running. And in fact, when I have stopped pursuing via email is when I recieve communication from her.
