Hi Brandnewday, Glad to hear all is well with you!! Good to see you visit!!
Exposure... Well, I did expose my H's A. We are now reconciling. I exposed it when I had proof about it. I got the proof when his A was dying of natural causes and to him seemed ...not important anymore but still couldnt break it up with her. He told me the exposure made the break up easier for him.
I believe it is apsolutely important, crucial, WHEN the LBS exposes the A. If it is during the middle of their fog, the first months or year of the affair, the exposure may even have the opposite result. And I am talking about affairs that have some kind of emotional basis, not just sexual.
