Allen, I know it's frustrating, especially when you're often the only one taking the time to post on this forum.
But it's simply not realistic that we're all going to agree on something as difficult, and controversial, as exposure and intel, just to name two. Hell, even the "unanimous" topics of "Don't move out of your own marital home!" only get maybe 90% unanimity, and things like exposure, "snooping" and transparency plans are more like 50/50.
The key -- for ALL of us -- is to stay civil, read the person's backthread carefully before offering advice, and to state things like "in my opinion" when what we're offering is just that -- OPINION -- and to offer backup when what we're advocating is well-researched.
"If all of us agreed, Some of us wouldn't need to be here."
