I think more people need to read what Doodi highlighted. I have not pursued my W, and our first hearing is today. This is our second go round with a split, so I dont think my sitch is changing. But after my "friendly" date last night, I wanted people to know another WAW's POV.
I am feeling a little Blah this morning. Not looking forward to the hearing, but at the same time, I need some closure to this sitch. I dont truly feel I can completely move on myself until we are D. So I guess a positive side to my sitch is that the W is moving quickly, unlike some others who have been seperated for months or even years, there is still that Limbo feeling without complete closure.