WAW left on Independence Day and not communicating

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I have been reading the threads of the WAS and it appears that they are as confused as the LBS

Yeah, but if they aren't calling, they probably aren't confused about what you are confused about.

Just accept that your marriage as you knew it is dead. Let it go. You want to send a two word email, go ahead. It won't hurt your relationship with her because basically there isn't one right now.

Just the fact that you are torturing yourself over whether or not to do that, however, tells me you need to shift your focus to you

Send "Happy Birthday", and then tell me what are your plans for the weekend.