Put 2 and 2 together and it's who I thought it might be. A guy she went to HS with. He chased her around then and she had told me he was always in love with her. They stayed in touch during our marriage and she used to make fun of the emails he would send once in a while. I believe she used to refer to him as a dork. Always told me he had 'no shot'.
So what did we learn from this before you are ready to move forward?
Ex-boyfriends/ex-husbands, etc contacting your wife is NOT good. Why did she let this continue, why did you not speak up?
You have discovered a new boundary that is important in a Marriage if you want to stay married.
See how much smarter you are going to be after going through all of this?
Last edited by TimeHeals; 09/09/1001:28 PM.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
