Hey, Steady.

I'm very sorry to hear the news.

You did have this feeling for a while now so I understand there is more sting than surprise. And sting is an underststement.

Your head and heart are in the right place based on what I know of you.

PLEASE watch for anger to be closer to the surface than before.

I have complete confidence that you will handle this well and you and the kids will get throuh this.

YOU are the rock in this this scenario.