She also told me when they started having problems, she asked for space, and she says she doesnt know if it would have turned out different. So my point is this, when the WAW wants space, give it to her, not saying leave the house, because you have to keep your balls in tact but do not PURSUE!!!!! IT really does push them farther away, and it will not get you anywhere. So if you give her space and you dont work things out it is still better for your "letting go" in the long run.
I'm glad you put this out there. As the WAW in my sitch, his hovering was making me run. Now that he has backed off a little I can think, process and fix my thoughts; and I'm willing to do it in the house. It might not be the case in all situations but it's worth a shot.
Doodi
"I feel like Rocky in the fifteenth round, beaten beyond recognition, when I realize, the only person I've been fighting for is...myself."
