I read just the last page. Looks like you have to *establish very firm and permanent boundaries* with this sort of self-centered woman who constantly generates conflict. Mine was (still is)like this so I think I know what you must be going thru'. For these cases the legal system may not do you justice. But given what it is, make sure your L is doing the best job he or she was hired for and that you do not cave in to unreasonable demands.
