Ok all, had the previous girfriend over for dinner and a movie. Made flat irn steak on the grill, grilled portabella caps marinated in olive oil and balsamic vinegar. a mixed salad with pine nuts and a mixed balsamic ranch dressing. Garlic bread sticks and 4 cheese ravioli in a Vodka sauce. Ya I over did it, but she did the dishes smile It turned out nice we talked about her sitch, my sitch watched a movie. During the movie she rested her leg against mine and we talked about the movie. After the movie she scratched my back for a bit, and I walked her to her car.

Se gave me a hug and said she enjoyed the evening.


Let me tell you LBS H's what she told me since she is the WAW. SHe has been unhappy since January, her H pleaded begged and wanted to contstantly be around her and woo her up until July. SHe said it was too much, she felt she did not have room to understand what was going on. She felt smothered at a time where she needed the space. She says she doesnt care if he dates, or what he does unless their kids are with him.

She also told me when they started having problems, she asked for space, and she says she doesnt know if it would have turned out different. So my point is this, when the WAW wants space, give it to her, not saying leave the house, because you have to keep your balls in tact but do not PURSUE!!!!! IT really does push them farther away, and it will not get you anywhere. So if you give her space and you dont work things out it is still better for your "letting go" in the long run.

I have my first hearing tomorrow, so wish me luck!!!! its not until the afternoon so I will be on in the AM. PEACE!!!