Mach, Actually the conversation was okay and if we were not constained by time it would have continued. It was very relaxed. I actually did not have any expectations other than to find out what she is "feeling". I did tell her that on my journey I have learned that it is all about how people "feel".
I also told her that attitude changed me not only with regards to her but with the kids, my family, my friends and my co-workers. I always consider how other people "feel" now.
She brought up things in the beginning when we first met, and how good it was. I told her that I cared about how she felt in the beginning. I reminded her of how she would get upset about things and I would have a knack for getting her out of her funk because I "cared" about how she felt. I told her that I lost that somewhere along the way but I discovered how important it is in life.
There was a lot of give and take, I just made sure not to contradict her at all. I would be open to talking to her again but I really do not have anything to say, I really just want to listen to her......I did tell her that today.
I think she feels that if we get divorced she will somehow wipe the slate clean, I am starting to believe that in her mind divorce is neccessary before we could ever get back together.
Just a thought.
Last edited by missherlove; 09/09/1003:14 AM.
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