MM, I know, this is the hardest thing you have or hopefully, will ever go through. I vote for going straight to vacation. He is NOT being himself right now, he is someone else. He is an alien that is not able to see the implications of his actions, logic won't work on him and he has absolutely no faith/belief in the future. But that will change, but it is a process that only he can work through. You going on with your life and putting no burdens on him will accelerate this process. You will be fine, I believe that with all my heart, but you also need to be strong and not think of him and what he needs (stopping by for one night), but what you need. You can do it, and deep down, you know it, it is just sometime hard to find that faith, so come here and we will tell you.

Dagny


Me 48, H49, M24, S14, S11
DB #1 4/2002-8/2003
Bomb #2 August 2010 & he moved out
Living with OW