I guess I take my status like it is one of those things where it had to happen to someone. Like some people get cancer, some get hit by a car, some have lots of family members die.
OK that is really just negative. But seriously- that is how I am able to accept this situation!
The weird thing is how I am doing "fine." Notice I didn't say TERRIFIC or BETTER THAN EVER. But it's like this is me, the divorced first grade teacher with a 14 month old son, whose dad left her for another woman. I am living the way I did before I was married, but now I have a son, am jaded about "happily ever after" and I have more money (lol!)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004