Nooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My god, Future, have you learned NOTHING in your time on here????
I guess not, since I'm not sure what you mean. We currently have a disagreement as to our custody schedule. It needs to be resolved ASAP. Right now I literally do not know when we will be transitioning the kids. Before our argument she asked if we could get together to discuss it. When she called after our argument she again asked if we could get together to discuss it. What am I supposed to say? Refuse? That just encourages her to escalate to the legal system. Put her off? Why?
NEVER accept the first offer to get together. You're BUSY, and mysterious, and interesting -- remember? This makes it look like you're just hanging around, waiting for her call. DBing 101.
