My New LBS Reality

[Albuquerque]

(((IB)))

Three words for you. DETACH DETACH DETACH!!! I know, easier said than done. But too much of your thoughts/time is spent mulling over a spouse that does not resemble the H you remember.

Concentrate on you. You've made several great suggestions on what you want to do with your time. What are your plans to get them done? How will you become debt free? How do you plan to learn to garden? Books? Classes? How do you plan to become organized? Lets spend your time making written definitive plans to achieve your goals. Wanting something is very different than DOING something. Lets concentrate on getting you DOING things to meet YOUR goals.
We all want our S back home with us. Otherwise we wouldn't be here. Feel it, accept it, mourn it. But keep moving forward or else you'll be stuck. I know you have the strength!