Anxious and uncertain

[luvless]

Are you surprised that your W is having an A with a woman? Have you ever thought she was gay?

I did not think she was gay. That aspect still has me in a state of shock. I know that it makes me feel so completely inadequate as a lover. I know in my head that I should not feel that way, but it is hard not to think that I am so bad in bed that I sent her completely off of men.

listen jammed - don't think like a man here - she is involved EMOTIONALLY with this woman - this is NOT about sex.

Luv