first question - have you been able to have her in counseling? my kida and i have gone together to learn to communicate better. and they have gone seperately. i am sure we (the lbs) dont do everything right... and they have so much to deal with ya know?
my thoughts are flying all over. she could be pushing BECAUSE she is a teen. just angry -- you know? and you are "safe". it isn't fair but it is the truth.
email me - we can talk a little more openly... she is probably confused, angry .. frustrated... and going through normal teen stuff. his life probably seem so fun -- your hard. (you are responsible, pay your bills, take care of your kids. his play play play and even ow probably SEEMS like more fun.)
one thing that my daughter and i have started (and this is for real) is keeping track of our "schedule" yep.. that one. It seems to bring to light some of those more emotional/heated weeks.
anyways.. email me friend. I AM HERE FOR YOU!!
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again