Anxious and uncertain

[john28]

Went and bought DR tonight. Just started reading it.

This sounds paranoid, but should I let my wife see that I am reading this book?

Most people here would say no, that this book is only for you.

Sometimes the other spouse will pick it up and think you're trying a "tactic" to get them back.

I'd just go to your room and read alone. I wouldn't read it in front of her, but if she comes in and you're reading it and she asks what it is... just tell her its a book that is helping you understand what is going on better.