I am staying low. I have 70 days til my court date. That's 70 days between me and a divorce I do not want. I so don't want to aggravate the situation, I've considered not asking about the taxes, just pay them myself.

In my heart of hearts, I wish he would come up with a reason to postpone, but I can't believe he will with her pushing so hard.

Just taking one day at a time, like all of us here. Hoping and praying. My prayers tonight include Eric, with his L date tomorrow. Of course, my prayers include us all anyway. Heard of another couple locally who split up over an OW and have gotten back together, even had another child together. The Lord works in mysterious ways.