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Nooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My god, Future, have you learned NOTHING in your time on here????


I guess not, since I'm not sure what you mean. We currently have a disagreement as to our custody schedule. It needs to be resolved ASAP. Right now I literally do not know when we will be transitioning the kids. Before our argument she asked if we could get together to discuss it. When she called after our argument she again asked if we could get together to discuss it. What am I supposed to say? Refuse? That just encourages her to escalate to the legal system. Put her off? Why?

I'm through playing the games. She knows I have a life. I almost never answer her calls, I take hours or days to answer her texts and e-mails, and not because of a game, but because I'm busy. I never initiate contact except for kid issues, and I keep them to that. We were regularly meeting for lunch on Mondays all summer, so she knows my schedule is open then. I want to get this resolved, and if we can't come to an agreement, it's time for the lawyers to take over. I can't live like this anymore.