I'm trying to figure out how to react when she shows me her guilt, if we are to reconcile (a BIG if).
You are wandering down the wrong road yet again...
This ALL has to do with her FEELINGS. She does NOT feel strong enough feelings for you. It has nothing to do with guilt. Guilt is the excuse. The reality is her feelings.
You continue to make a complicated issue out of something rather simple.. WHEN a woman has the right feelings for you she will help you move mountains, rob banks with you and follow you to the end of the earth..
When she DOES NOT have the right feelings, you get what your woman is giving you.. A CONSTANT RUN AROUND.
Until she feels dumped and until you can make her really really believe that she has waited TOO LONG.. (in other words NOW her guilt is REAL because it is TOO LATE) is as long as this is going to go on...
How sad to watch you struggle when the answer is right before you but you just don't have the self confidence to show her just HOW strong you really are... How sad..
You really don't need this woman. You should be out having the time of your life. You should be done posting on this site. You just don't seem to get it. You are heading on close to TWO YEARS on this site man.. Come on.. Man up. Get with the progam.. Enough is enough.. This isn't rocket science. She doesn't have the right feelings for you and NEVER will until YOU let her feel that you are done and it is over and now SHE can't have it back because it is YOU that doesn't want it... Wise up here.
