I will definitely pray for you. You will be alright. I know this because of going to the sit down on Aug 30 myself. Stay cool. Stay strong. You know you have it in you. All of us on the boards see the strength. After a few days you will look back and see that this is all part of the process. You will gain more valuable strength from this. The MLC mess is going to be on it's own time line and you know that. You know that whatever happens in the end, you will be the best Eric you can be. I have been told there are many,many women who would love to have that. That came from women who don't know me and who do. There are many women who wish there husbands would stand for them in a difficult time. You are doing it man! You get to stand tall knowing that you are doing the work for you and the kids. They need you so badly to be the best for you and your family. You got all of the qualifications. That also means you can't have the excuses and you sure as he11 can't be the victim. I know you won't be. Let me know how it goes. It sure helped when you were there for me.
I haven't been on here very long at all, but in a short time I have felt like you are one very strong, very loving man. I pray for you and your family.
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12
Eric, Prayers for you tonight and and will be thinking of you tomorrow. You will do fine and you may surprise yourself tomorrow with the strength you will summon to deal with all this.
~C
Formerly "missherlove"
Me49 XW49 M17 T19 S16 D20
Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
Take a deep breath and go on in. You are a he11 of a man, father, and probably as a husband. Remain calm, cool and collected. Never lose your temper, and remember who you are. No one can take that away from you. Prayers and hugs.
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
Thank you for your support. I have been amazed at the responses that I have received. Text, calls, emails - chit I expected Brooklyn was gonna show up at my house.
I wanted everyone to know that I feel okay. I took somewhat of a dive this morning, which was to be expected. I felt it and pass through it.
I am ready for tomorrow. Need to stay true to who I am. My challenge will be to not allow myself to be pulled into her crisis.
I know I will do this.
Thank you everyone for your support. Now all of you - get back to steppin will ya!
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
