Hi Punkin, see that you are keeping low profile with your H & OW....that's good. I truly believe that removing yourself from the line of fire is the best approach....to declare war only sends MLC sufferers running faster and farther from us.
Keep you cool and let them fall on their face all on their own
BTW - I have heard about the "alienation of affection". That's a law suit you can bring against the OW for "stealing" your H. It's usually done at the same time as divorce. I've heard of cases where the betrayed spouse won and there was a monetary judgment against the OP....the question is would you be able to collect....does she have any money? Anyway, not sure if it's doable in Arkansas....it's not where I am.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO