I have not spent a lot of time going Dark...my W has. But I have sent probably 8 yo 9 emails not begging or anything, but to agree with her leaving, telling her that I was not angry with her, letting her #1, Hello how are you doing, Open invite to have coffee, let her know about a Dr's appointment, apology and letting go. I have not spoken about R, M or D. Her b-day is Friday and I thought about an simple email, but after advice from her I decided not to.
