So you guys do NOT live together, he won't share any $ with you, and hasn't really touched on getting everything ready for you to move with him overseas?
Your story about the pic you sent him made me want to cry. That was very mean of him.
You are in a limbo right now, even if nothing official has been done. That is not a fun place to be.
What do YOU want? Have you talked to him about what YOU want? You are his wife and deserve some answers instead of him postin gon his wall on facebook about his day and not calling you.
Yes, we don't live together. We don't share $ since we both have jobs so the idea is to merge the finances once we live together. We actually discussed stuff together, he told me everything about his finances but I don't have access to it. He talked about getting paperwork done, got me forms he needed filled out, etc but in practice we haven't moved forward in it. So yes, limbo - he's being passive aggressive about the situation so I find it hard to move one way or the other.
What I want is for us to communicate and work through our issues. I want to move in with my H. The problem is that he wants that half of the time and the other half he doesn't. I just feel like stuck in a washing machine and set on fast spinning.
Accept that there is only one thing you can change in life and that is you
I do sometimes. But not at the same time than him cause I don't want him to think I reacted to his provocation. Still doesn't stop me from wondering what he's talking about and if it's anything related.
Accept that there is only one thing you can change in life and that is you
