We've been back and forth a lot tonight but this post has hit me solid.
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I started this in an all-out effort to save us, but now I think its better if we just can be happy even if that means she has to go.
Is pretty much what my H has said the last 2 days. He has just finished explaining it again that he gets it and that now he recognizes he made this bed and pushed me to this point so he has to accept what comes next--good or bad. But the question is, am I ready for the rest of the story. Am I ready for it to play out similar to your sitch.
I'm sorry that you've reached this point. It's obvious that you have given it your all. Hold your head up and remember this to shall pass.
Smooches, Doodi
Are you sure Doodi, that your H is not lurking here?
