I hate the term children are resilient, no they are the losers I hate watching my kids go through this. The children are resilient crap is what is put out by the divorce industry. Divorce hurts children just look at the stats of children of divorced parents google them its scary.
Unhealthy relationships between the parents hurts the children.
A lack of good role models hurts the children.
The anger between the parents hurts the children.
That is why is it so important to forgive the other parent. You can love the other parent but not be in love with them.
That is also why it is important to fight for 50/50 parenting plan. Any other balance sends messages to the children that one parent loves them more (or less)....
Any other thoughts
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
