Thank you so much for your advice. I look forward to things that you write because you have been there done that. I left my cell phone at home today and it has been kind of nice - no contact no communication.
He DOES NOT LIKE IT when I don't talk to him. He tells me that he needs me to talk to him. He is going through a really tramatic family situation right now with his mom. He found out that his mom had A on his dad...and the lies that have manifested in the family are just now coming to a head. He says that he needs me right now for this situation, because I know everything and can help.
Of course he also tells me that he talks to the OW about the situation because it is another point of view. She is someone he can talk to.
You are right, I should just concentrate on detachment and his brothers and sisters can help him through this...for me this family crisis will only add and complicate his own MLC! He is really really lost right now.
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12
