Not sure where to start or end, WAW - #2

[TimeHeals]

This M has crippled me by both my W and my own doing. I'm a shell of that man I once was.

What do you think your relationship has done to your wife? From what you tell me, you both have some growing to do here, so don't forget that.

Now instead of being that confident man, I'm just a little wimpy narcisistic man that only thought of himself. That's not who I am.

Narcisistic? I don't think so. Maybe you had a sense of entitlement, but then so does your wife obviously: she expects you to pay for a lawyer and seperation so she can probably date others without being an adultress, she doesn't want to get a job to support herself, etc.

It's time for both of you to take a long, hard look at what life is really all about, I expect.