Thank you guys. Gr8 day, I thought the same thing. Now there's trouble in his paradise and he decides to take it out on ME bc I finally know what he's doing.
And yes, the biggest issue was that he decided to say something like that in front of DD. I really don't think she heard it bc he did mumble. But regardless, it was totally unacceptable. I'm just happy I didn't GO OFF the way I wanted to.
This is what I said last night, "I do not appreciate being yelled at or spoken to the way you did in the garage. I have every right to ask that you don't disrespect DD and I by contacting OW while you are here. That is a boundary & quite frankly if you don't like it, don't come over. And do NOT speak to me that way again, esp. in front of DD." He pretty much didn't acknowledge me.
Today, DD started preschool. He sent me this this text, "How was DD's first day?"
I replied, "If you would like to apolgize for the way you spoke to me last night, I'm happy to give you and update on school."
He didn't respond. That's his choice. But I'm done being a doormat. He's not going to talk to me one night in such a disrespectful manner then act like everything is just fine the next day.
Me: 34 H: 34 DD: 3 M: 8 yrs H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you" PA Bomb: April 5, 2010
