New Here Same Old Story

[rb1967]

Okay, I am rereading the Divorce Remedy and trying to get a game plan together on setting the boundries and my demands so that when I do this "confrontation" with him I wont get knocked off my game.
He is really playing the traumatize to the hilt. Sleeping on the couch. When he is in our bedroom he sleeps in the chair. He is talking as if we are cool however he is maintaining that he cant sleep.
Yesterday, morning I asked him about the couch sleeping and in his drama he said that he **it himself during the water incident and may need professional help to shake this feeling. He is still maintaining that he may become a victim of domestic violence.(eyes rolling). This man is ex-military for 17 years and currently works for Depart of Homeland. I dont get it. I mean he is an ameature bodybuilder for crying out loud.

I also have contacted a counselor for myself and am waiting for an appointment call back. Thanks again to everyone.

Thanks everyone. You guys seem so strong and are really helping me. Just reading everyones pssts all over this forum is giving me a more postive outlook whatever the outcome.