Yes, we don't live together. We don't share $ since we both have jobs so the idea is to merge the finances once we live together. We actually discussed stuff together, he told me everything about his finances but I don't have access to it. He talked about getting paperwork done, got me forms he needed filled out, etc but in practice we haven't moved forward in it. So yes, limbo - he's being passive aggressive about the situation so I find it hard to move one way or the other.
What I want is for us to communicate and work through our issues. I want to move in with my H. The problem is that he wants that half of the time and the other half he doesn't. I just feel like stuck in a washing machine and set on fast spinning.
Accept that there is only one thing you can change in life and that is you
