Read it in a book - don't recall the name - something about should we get back together or similar. As with any statistics, it's perspective and subjective to the sample. But I have seen similar in many of the stories on the boards and in my own life.
It's a pattern. A dance. It's why a lot of LBS' talk about a script as if there is a store somewhere that LBS' can't find, but WAS can. A lot of similarities occur in human behavior. Or, put another way, nothing new under the sun.
Good work Bobby. You do have to put this out of your mind and move on. Continue to work on your self-respect and self-esteem. If you're not so tied up in her actions etc. you'll have time to do that. Trust me, it'll be important later. There's a test
Stay focused on you and your kids and don't worry about what she is doing. She is going to do what she needs to do for her. Nothing more. Trust that, be at peace with that, and let her go do her thing....
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
