Eh. Your stbx is a piece of work. LOL. Just respond with telling her you will see about the schedule and you will go through the toys and ask DD which ones she'd like to take to her mom's house.
Oh and not sure if it's been said on these threads before (and I'm feeling silly today)...
Romeo, oh Romeo... wherefore art thou Romeo?
LOL. I need to take a break at work or something. Haha.