Every can and will move on - it's either that or die. Nobody is debating that. There is no time frame though, it's individual and more is not less and less is not more.
And what was the statistic--real hard data--that bothered you?
That more than 2/3rds of genocide survivors are happy and fully functional in 6-24 months?
That's just the findings of the only studies ever conducted. What makes these people more resilient than others? Why do 1.5% never seem to move on?
Perspective. Some people cherish their pain. They hold onto painful memories instead of accepting them as the teaching tools these experiences can be. They don't take much time to count their blessings and plan for their future. They spend a lot of time thinking about past hurt, resentments, anger, and so on.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
