Originally Posted By: TimeHeals
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divorce involving children is never final.


It is if you think it is. Do you have to deal with this person? Sure. Do you have to hold onto resentment, anger, and so on?

Nope. You can even handle things through an intermediary if the other person is difficult. It's up to you to let go.


It's not dealing with the spouse that's the issue, TH. It's having to revisit the pain with the children. You can't just tell them to get over it.

I saw an episode of a sitcom a few months ago in which a character said that you are only as happy as your least happy child. That is so true.