We are talking about grief. You want to compare your marriage ending to somebody watching their wives and daughters being raped and murdered? To not knowing what happened to their extended family?
Seriously. If you keep looking back and focusing on the negative feelings instead of accepting the past as the teaching gift it can be, and then counting your blessings and then making plans for your own future, then you will stay stuck.
If genocide survivors can move on, then so can anybody.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
