If you truly let go, drop the rope, etc and you are totally free of your spouse then why would I even consider taking them back? There will so much baggage from the past that will need to exercised in order to have a healthy M, i.e my A and her WAW with no communication.
Your wife has already arrived at this conclusion. Your W isn't thinking about the no communication. She's thinking why be with you, a husband who told me he's in love with someone else. A WAS is so far ahead of you on the detachment curve that's why it's needed to think clearly. Get it now?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
