Letting Go and setting them free

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If you truly let go, drop the rope, etc and you are totally free ...why would I even consider taking them back? There will so much baggage from the past

And this is different from any new relationship how exactly?

I don't know about you, but I don't plan on dating a 15 year old, so anybody I would date would have possible emotional baggage that they may or may not have dealt with, and sometimes it takes a few years to discover that.

And then there's other baggage: their kids, their exes, their child support payments, and so on.