John, I wrote to you eariler today before my internet crashed. LOL.
As for the Retrovaille, it would have been better had you NOT offered her your car and keys and for you to fly back home. If she wants to leave Retro., she can do so alone.
As others have mentioned, if she wants out, there is nothing you can do to change her mind. Start looking into protecting yourself. I know you still love her immensely (she is your wife after all!) but now is a good time to research some things *just in case.*
Originally Posted By: TimeHeals
If you are "playing a game" where one party keeps dictating the terms and rules, you're going to wind up losing.