one problem is dealing w/ a crazed spouse who has been exposed as a cheater, PEAs running rampant in her brain and irate as all get out with access to a joint checking acct writing checks as retainers for blood suckers, i mean lawyers. i am so tempted to change my direct deposit from the joint acct to one in just my own name. i do the bills now. i would periodically replenish funds for living expenses too.
I'm trying to tell ya!
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I sent email this am after agreeing with OM yest to no more contact betw OM, OMW, WAS n I. He was livid. Ultimately got more intel on two hotel trysts with graphic detail. I m at loss for words.
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Like lovesick puppy. Who the f is this person? How could I marry someone like this? We r separating. NO contact. More later. I m outside relaxing. I forwarded her email to read while she is on phone with sister
What in the cr@p are you talking about? You talked to OM and you agreed to no more contacts between the four of you? Please tell me you are not that dense!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!