Originally Posted By: Ready2Change
"Would you take your spouse back?"

My response:

"I'll cross that road when I get there, but there would have to be a lot of changes"


I see that as line as a YES but she would have to change. In my mind I am not even there yet. It's all theoretical as i don't think it will happen but my most truthful answer is i don't know.

If she made a lot of changes we still cant turn back the clock. I do really want her back or I wouldn't be here but dont know if I would be willing to open myself up again which would probably prevent that.

I had a good life before her, with her and I will have a fun life after her. Life is too short to spend a lengthy part of it holding on to someone who doesn't want to be with you.

Again i am not as optimistic as Puppy but who knows. I cant live my life around what she will do. Right now i dont really care if she's happy, sad or angry. I only care how me and the kids are.