Actually, I should probably rephrase this a bit. Shortly after our first court order was finalized, I complained to her about how much support I had to pay to her and her response was, "I can't help it, that's just what the court decided. They do this every day and they know what the arrangements should be."
She doesn't want to be responsible for any of this.
Dont be so naive. This is a business. People make good money off of divorces. They own McMansions, and sailboats, their kids drive to private schools in BMWs. To them this is a game. That is why some people are more successful than others. They always win. And win BIG.
Your attorney proved ineffective. They called your bluff on the "thing" and she balked. Its called tactics. Reread Cg's example of her husband kept "changing" his mind. Tactic called break the bank. Financially and mentally exhaust your opponent till they give into what you want.
Dirty tactics? Well.....Don't waste your breath complaining about it. It wont stop the next personal injury attorney from running for governer.
It hasn't crossed your mind that your wifes attorney told her to avoid any and all settlement talks with you completely. Act dumb. 'You are too emotionally involved to make the best descions for yourself and your children's future. I will get you the best settlement possible. I know how to play this game." Btw, how much does he have saved up in his retirement fund? Badger them too much for a settlement and its not unlikely you could be slapped with a restraining order for harrassment.
R2C. Is totally correct here. Reread that. Back to divorce busting. In lots of ways it's game also. A game you can win at...
