I told him that I had no idea what he was talking about. (I really don't). He siad that he didn't think that I did, but wanted to make sure. He just can't understand why everyone can't leave it alone - just stay out of it. I said,"I am telling you this, not as a jealous wife, but just as a fact. The two of you will ALWAYS have this in your relationship. ALWAYS. People will not let you forget and this will be a part of your relationship forever. She cheated on her husband and you cheated on your wife - this will always be there.
Why call this a "relationship"??! It is an affair...plain and simple. Call a spade a spade. Don't legtimitze their affair. Marriage is relationship/partnership.
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He seemed to not want to get off the phone with me - hesitation. but I ended the conversation.
Good job on ending the convo first. I would caution you about oversharing details of your personal life with H. This gives the appearance that you approve and are settled in with H's affair with OW.
It is an affair...plain and simple. Call a spade a spade. Don't legtimitze their affair. Marriage is relationship/partnership. 
