I am so glad you are over here now Hope--you are going to get strong through osmosis--the "vibe" is amazing around here!!

I freak out about the money too--I'm going for primary (in FL there is no joint) but you have to do what is right for your S. There just is no way he should get that much custody.

I pray we both come out of this with our sanity intact. It is such a horrific experience to have to deal with a raging S.